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Tips on Making a Lateral Associate Move (Part 2—Nailing the Interview)

(This is the second installment of my three-part guest post series at The Careerist)  Part 2: Practice, practice, practice by Angela Kopolovich Mazel tov! Your preparations have finally paid off, and...

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Tips on Making a Lateral Associate Move (Part 3 – Offer and Acceptance)

(This is the third installment of my three-part guest post series at The Careerist) Part 3: Offer and Acceptance by Angela Kopolovich You’ve done the groundwork for landing a new job and survived the...

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What’s Hot, What’s Not (in law) – 2012 Annual Report

You know the holidays are here, because Bob Denney’s 24th annual What’s Hot, What’s Not report is out! (Yes, I’m a dork and very proud of it). Here is a quick preview: RED HOT HOT GETTING HOT COOL...

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Why am I not getting any love from legal recruiters?

This is a recent guest post I did for Vault. I covered this question in another post last year, but figured it might be worth re-visiting. Here goes: Earlier this week I received an email from a...

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Can we expect more law firm mergers in 2013?

  According to consultant Kent Zimmerman – a resounding yes! Law firms are looking to grow dramatically via mergers; specifically “doubling down” on their existing strengths.

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Diverse opinions are (apparently) not welcome

Several days ago, Above The Law ran a piece by David Mowry, suggesting that mid-level associates should consider going back to a clerkship after having worked for several years. In what I thought was a...

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Tips on Finding a 1L Summer Job

This is a post I did for Girls Guide back in December, but it seems that in the holiday madness, I forgot to post it here. Enjoy! During your first few months of law school, the National Association...

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Unless you’re a rainmaker with a tribe-like following, don’t quit your job...

  Yesterday, my friend Casey Sullivan over at Reuters broke an interesting story about Don Prophete, former management level partner at Ogleetree Deakins. It seems that Don has unexpectedly announced...

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To clerk or not to clerk, the questions continue…

As I’m sure most of you remember, a couple of months ago I found myself in the middle of a heated exchange (more superficially than substantively), about whether mid-level associates should take some...

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Tidbits from around the world (the world of law, that is)

In our never-ending quest to learn more about (and peer further into) the business side of the legal profession – here are some tidbits that I thought you might find interesting: This is an interesting...

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Stop working with crappy recruiters and you won’t get burned.

I did a quick blurb-and-link on this topic last year, but (without irony) that link no longer works. Now I’ll have to tell you myself. I’ve written several pieces all over the interwebs about what we,...

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Candidates, never (ever!) allow a reference check before you get a formal offer.

Folks, I know the market has been tough, and some of you are desperate to find a new job (or any job, for that matter). However, that’s no reason to allow a potential employer’s carelessness to...

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What makes us feel good about our work?

Lots of time and energy is spent these days, lamenting the misery of life as an associate in BigLaw. We’ve read all the books, blog posts, and snarky Tweets the subject can bear. It’s old news… What we...

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Land an interview, even when there isn’t a job posted!

I came across this piece in Forbes this morning. It suggests that job seekers can/should actively approach employers, in the absence of a job posting, to build a relationship with the decision-maker....

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Eleven World Markets Where Lawyers Thrive

Earlier this month Washington University School of Law’s Online LLM program, @WashULaw, sent me the results of their report on the Eleven World Markets Where Lawyers Thrive. In the event you’re looking...

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Resume Dos and Don’ts Revisited

Can you believe it’s been almost two years since my last Dos and Don’ts post? Time certainly flies when your chasing ungrateful entitled millennials having fun. Anyway, in the past two years, I’ve been...

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The Partner Market Endures

Over the past few years, we’ve seen an absolutely unprecedented number of partner transitions throughout BigLaw. According to the American Lawyer, for 2012 (the statistics are tabulated from September...

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What’s Hot, What’s Not (in law) – Midyear update

This morning we got the latest What’s Hot, What’s Not midyear update from Bob Denney & Co.! And if you’ve been here before, you know how happy this makes me. So without further ado, here is the...

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Dating, matchmaking, and commitments… go figure.

A few nights ago, I met a very old (high school old) friend for dinner. Naturally, as often happens when women get together, the conversation turned to men and dating (hers, not mine. I’m happily...

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Weil Gotshal, Patton Boggs, and some unanswered questions…

I’m sure you’ve all heard by now about the bloodbath at Weil yesterday morning. We also heard about some partners leaving Patton Boggs, and some big support/staff layoffs at Jones Day. All in all, not...

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Noblesse oblige? Maybe not.

What does a typical recruiter do for fun on Saturday morning? We read craigslist ads, of course. The last few CL ads that made the rounds had to do with law firms offering new graduates “terrific...

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Partner layoffs and the new business model for BigLaw (emphasis on the...

Despite recent lamenting, the legal profession, and BigLaw in particular, is starting to look and feel more and more like General Electric. In this BloombergLaw interview, Kent Zimmerman, law firm...

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Skills > pedigree? Not a chance.

A few months ago, there was a rash of articles (I say “rash” because they made me itchy) suggesting that employers (law firms and legal departments, for our purposes), no longer care about pedigree or...

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True Love and Hiring; Coming Soon to a Law Firm near you!

A few weeks ago I used a loose dating analogy to discuss some of my frustrations with candidate recruiting. Well, it looks like my comparisons are not unique. Remember Lauren Rivera from last week? Her...

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Want some more interview prep? Here you go.

This is a series of videos developed by BloombergLaw (which, if you can’t tell, is quickly becoming my favorite legal resource). Definitely worth watching, regardless of lateral level. I could curate...

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In Defense of BigLaw… sort of

(This is new guest post I did for Girl’s Guide to Law School. Check out the comments section at the end for an interesting, non-nasty, dialogue with Adam Ziegler, founder of Mootus). I’m going to share...

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What is this thing called “happiness,” and where do I find mine?

I have been on a bit of a hiatus the last few months… But now I’m back, and boy do I have a story to tell you! Buckle up… As longtime friends know, I went from BigLaw to recruiting to essentially...

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Where’s my happiness? Part 2

Will Meyerhofer, JD MSW Last week I shared my search for happiness story with you. (The tl;dr version is – I was unhappy. Found peace. Now I’m happy.) Thank you to everyone who wrote me, for all the...

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Happiness Part #3 (or “happiness pu pu platter”)

Since my recent “awakening,” I’ve spent the last few weeks getting deeper into this area of awareness, mindfulness, consciousness, and spirituality. Here, for your enlightenment, is a collection of...

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More happiness, please!

Happy Friday!! I came across two amazing new pieces in my spiritual journey, and since blog posts are free, I figured I’d share some more videos with you. (Also embedding videos is my new favorite...

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Are you looking for more, but not sure what exactly?

Hello Friends, You’ll forgive me for my absence over the last few months – I’ve been continuing on my intense, thrilling, and at times terrifying, journey of spiritual discovery. For the past year, I...

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A slight shift in perspective makes all the difference.

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You are not your mind

The beginning of freedom is the realization that you are not the thinker. The moment you start watching the thinker, a higher level of conciousness becomes activated. You then begin to realize that...

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I am no longer the victim of any of my stories

Part of the spiritual work that I’ve been focusing on over the last few months is a taking of responsibility. While I’ve always considered myself a responsible person, this is a different kind of...

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Book Review: You Are Not Your Brain: The 4-Step Solution for Changing Bad...

This is a review I’ve been meaning to share with you for weeks. You’ll want to file this one under “science-catches-up-with-spiritual-truths.” Here is a link to the amazon page. If you’re naturally...

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Forgiveness, a labyrinth in the Toltec Tradition

I’ve been working my way through the Five Levels of Attachment by don Miguel Ruiz Jr. Although you can probably get through it in one sitting, I’m taking my time with the book. I will read a few pages,...

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What does it really mean to love yourself?

How much we know and understand ourselves is critically important, but there is something that is even more essential to living a Wholehearted life: loving ourselves. Brene Brown, The Gifts of...

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You have arrived!

Some time ago I took a short business trip to Ohio. I picked up my rental car, and found that the agent had thrown in a GPS for free. (I usually opt out of the GPS because of a traumatic experience in...

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Honesty, instead of eggshells.

This is a difficult one. It sounds easy, but it’s really not. Just be honest. Just tell the truth. The truth will set you free. How many times have you heard these words? And yet, it’s such a struggle...

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Book Review: Women and Desire, Beyond Wanting to be Wanted, by Polly...

While everyone was out drinking and barbecuing this weekend, I spent most of it on the couch with this book (the actual physical book). It was so powerful in so many ways that I’m adding it to my...

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When you set aside your judgments…

Original image copyright S.R.Lee Photo Traveller I came across a movie recently that challenged all of my old beliefs and judgments about who or what I ought to be. In watching the movie, I discovered...

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Finding the courage

Original Photo Copyright Anna-Mari West Magic comes into your life all the time. You can dismiss it and make it really small, or you can follow it into a new way of life. The latter option takes so...

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There’s no one out there, just a bunch of mirrors

Throughout the last few months of my work with Gaya, we’ve been talking a lot about the people in my life, and how I’m relating to them. Gaya keeps repeating to me that there’s no one “out there;”...

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When you look within…

This is a beautiful excerpt from The Art of Sexual Magic, by Margo Anand. When I put aside my prejudices and looked at my deepest motivations and fears, I was surprised to be confronted by a rather...

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Is meditation the new black?

I came across this article, by John Horgan, questioning the benefits of the new meditation craze. I thought he made some interesting observations, and on some level I agree with him. I sent him the...

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What is compassion?

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. -Rumi I was out walking Linda recently when a man approached us, and...

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What do you do about anxiety?

On of my favorite teachings on handling negative emotions comes from Pema Chodron’s book, Getting Unstuck: Breaking Your Habitual Patterns and Encountering Naked Reality. Pema (I’ve spent so much time...

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Here’s what’s coming next

Things are blissfully busy here, as usual, but I wanted to share some ideas and posts that are in the works: 1. I’ve been noticing an interesting trend lately, and I’d like to propose a theory. Maybe...

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What agreements do you live by?

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Confession: I don’t know how to tell you that you’ve hurt my feelings.

Life Lesson – Conflict Some time ago, along the path of intense self-discovery, I realized that I’m not good at conflict, neither the confrontation, nor the resolution. Ironic, for a litigator, yes?...

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